七転八起、 不撓不屈
    七転八起、 不撓不屈

                 [No.8]My Roots and My Mother                  2.25, 2013

 

 Soon it will be Easter (Mar. 31) and I will go to the church where my mother was active. After mass, we’ll go to her church grave and have worship. Usually we Japanese go to our family grave at the time of the spring equinox in accordance with Buddhism. Thinking of my mother’s life, it was eventful.

 My mother, Tatsuko, was born on Mar. 29 (Taisho 4), 1915, as the eldest daughter of Kenji and Kiku Sasaki in Taibei, Taiwan. Kenji was appointed as an English teacher at Taibei Junior High School. In Taiwan, they were committed to the teachings of Zen Buddhism and Zazen (meditation of Zen Buddhism). Therefore, my mother was named Tatsuko(達子), from the character of ‘Daishi (Dharma,達磨ダルマ大師)’. Kenji Sasaki was born in Kishiwada, Osaka in 1885 (Meiji 18) and graduated from Tokyo Foreign Language University with his great efforts and was appointed as an English teacher of 6a junior high school in Tsushima, Aichi Prefecture. He married Kiku Hotta, who was the eldest daughter of the priest of Tsushima shrine, Aichi. Soon Kenji and his family returned from Taiwan to Osaka and moved to Kobe, Nagasaki and Fukuoka for his job. Anyway my mother Tatsuko had graduated Fukuoka Women’s College and was dedicated to the mission school Wilmina in Osaka (name of the pre-war Osaka Jyogakuin High School). At 24 she married Kumao Ikeda, who was a steel company man in Manchuria, and left her school and went to Manchuria with her husband soon after marriage. Soon after, I was born in August 1940 in Kobe on my father’s training business trip to Kobe Steel Company. After the Pacific war, various things happened with my mother and we came back to Kobe in 1950 and she began to work again at Osaka Jogakuin. She brought up her 4 sons as my father was weak in health. She experienced many big happenings like the Great Hanshin Earthquake and others but she never got depressed by hardship.

 My mother ( died 2007, Sep. 3, age 92) was a strong woman like a Dharma doll which tips but doesn’t fall. In this season, I remember her clearly in my mind every year when Easter is approaching. 

                               ( *Tatsuko Ikeda  1915 Mar.29 〜 2007 Sep.3 )

 

             Dharma 達磨  http://ja.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E9%81%94%E7%A3%A8

         Dharma だるま http://www.daruma.or.jp/about/daruma.html 

 

         Dharma
         Dharma
  高崎・達磨寺のだるま Dharma doll
  高崎・達磨寺のだるま Dharma doll

          

          Precept or Lesson of ' Daruma ( Dharma Doll ) '

            七転八起     Vicissitudes of life

                     Always vising after a fall

            不撓不屈       unyielding refusal

                                               an indomitable spirit

                       不撓不屈の精神      a dauntless spirit

                                               an indomitable spirit

                           ーas my motherー

 

       アメリカの諺 '七転八起' :  Weebles Woobble but they don't fall down!

 

          Tatsuko Ikeda ( 92), 2001
          Tatsuko Ikeda ( 92), 2001

Koji's son Yoji, Ryota's son Koki, Shintaro & Ryota, Masanori's son Keita and Keiichi's son Shujiro
Koji's son Yoji, Ryota's son Koki, Shintaro & Ryota, Masanori's son Keita and Keiichi's son Shujiro
   Koji ( youngest son ) and Tatsuko
   Koji ( youngest son ) and Tatsuko
Masanori's son Ryota's wife Barbara and Tatsuko
Masanori's son Ryota's wife Barbara and Tatsuko
      Keiichi's eldest daughter Mari and Tatsuko
  Keiichi's eldest daughter Mari and Tatsuko

       母 達子、90歳の誕生日を祝う Tatsuko's 90 years old Birthday 

at Ohara, Kyoto with Tatsuko's son and grandchild
at Ohara, Kyoto with Tatsuko's son and grandchild
   Megumi, Takako, Sayuri, Tatsuko and Koji
   Megumi, Takako, Sayuri, Tatsuko and Koji

Masanori's eldest son, Keita ( came from America )
Masanori's eldest son, Keita ( came from America )
  Hiroyuki  & Ryota's son Shintaro and Koki
  Hiroyuki & Ryota's son Shintaro and Koki